Tokyo Speed Dating

What will really happen?


6pm~ check in
6:30pm~ speed dating start 1st session
about 8pm~ 1st break time ( about 20 mins)
about 8:25pm~ Speed dating 2nd session
about 9:15  finish
( 1 or 2 break times depends on the number of the guests)

Arrive on time and check in: pay the Speed Dating fee, get your score card, instruction sheet and drink coupon. Then go to the bar for a drink. Ladies will go to their assigned seats and men will wait at the bar until it is time to start.

After everyone has checked in we will make a few comments to explain the evening and how everything works. Then the Speed Dating will start: Women will already be seated at their assigned seats and the men of their first dates will sit down in front of them. The first date will begin — and then end after 5 minutes.

After 5 minutes, when the whistle blows, everyone will mark their score card ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to the question ” would you like to see this person again?”

The men will stand up and move to the next table and the next dates will begin…


Roast beef & cheese etc. In the middle of the event there will be a 15- to 20-minute social period for guests to get another drink, mingle at the bar, use the rest rooms, etc. Speed Dating is a relaxed affair, and it’s really fun.

At the end of the evening we will collect all the score cards. We will later compile all the data and see who wants to see whom again. If two people both like each other it is a perfect match. Between 7pm-10pm next day of the event,  everyone will receive an e-mail with the contact details of their perfect matches.

This means, if you join us, you will receive by e-mail a list of names and phone numbers of people that you met and liked and who want to see you again too!

From then on it will be up to you to contact each other, and set up a dinner date or whatever you like — but it cannot get much easier than that, can it?


In addition to the one drink coupon for a complimentary drink included with your admission fee, there will be a cash bar where drinks cost Y500


You can do whatever you want. You can stay and have another drink, or you can take someone you have just met out to dinner.


Clearly, it is very important that we have the same number of men and women. If you have signed up and then realize you will not be able to come, please let us know so that we can let somebody else come from the waiting list.

Also, it is important to arrive on time. If you come late, you will miss your first dates and leave some attractive woman/handsome man sitting on their own for 5 minutes!!!

We hope to see you at one of our parties soon!

Our 12th Marriage!

We're a little late updating the count but 12 couples who met through Tokyo Speed Dating have married!
It works folks!